Why These Rules No Longer Exist
The old rule of a bride having to wear white is simply outdated and no longer applies. Read on to find out why these wedding rules are no longer relevant in today’s society and check out our other pages for more helpful wedding planning tips and suggestions.
In this post, you will get ideas on:
1. The Bride Having to Wear White
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2. The Old “Only 8 Bridesmaids” Rule
Back in the 1950s we didn’t have extended families like we do now. Having only a certain number of bridesmaids kept the wedding party small and contained. It is one of those rules that doesn’t serve a purpose anymore since couples have bigger families with several sisters, aunts, and besties. Have as many bridesmaids as you choose. 8, 10, or 12, or, you don't have to have any , it's totally up to you.3. Things at the Reception Being in a Certain Order
4. Giving Everyone a “Plus One”
In the past, it was sort of expected that you give guests a complimentary “Plus One” invitation. Back then people had smaller weddings because it was not the big social event that it is now. You could fit everyone in one room so an extra guest or two wasn’t as much of a big deal. However, since today’s couples are more independent and often pay for the wedding out of their savings, it is more prudent to limit extra guests due to budget restraints. This post gives suggestions on who you should give a “Plus One.”5. You Have to Toss the Bouquet
Why Wedding Rules Don’t Exist
Final thoughts
What do you think about wedding rules? Did you follow any or did you do your own thing? Let us know in the comments below. We’d love to hear what worked for you or any suggestions you may have for other brides-to-be. For more creative wedding coordinaion ideas , check out our other posts and subscribe to our email list and follow us on Pinterest.
It's nice that people can have weddings their way. I never liked the bouquet toss when I was single, so I didn't have one at my wedding. #MMBC
ReplyDeleteWe think it's a great idea for couples to have the wedding they want and not worry about traditions.Thanks for sharing your thoughts and congrats on your wedding and doing it your way, #MMBC!
DeleteI think it is best to do what you love and will remember it being even more special for doing as you wanted :) Thanks for sharing at Creative Mondays.
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DeleteI got married once. ONCE!
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DeleteI am all for doing what makes you happy at your wedding! It is your special day. Want to wear red or pink or orange or leopard print, go for it. Want to celebrate at McDonald’s because that is what kind of budget you have and you love Chicken McNuggets, have at it. Want to elope with just two friends as witnesses, enjoy the beauty of the intimacy. We do live in a generation when we absolutely do not have to stick to antiquated rules and expectations. Great post! Thanks for sharing and linking up.
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So true. Your wedding your way. Thanks for sharing, Shelbee
Deletewe skipped the bouquet toss and a few other things that we felt like were just wastes of time that nobody really cared about. Its always a bit of a let down when people are partying and then have to stop for something silly like that #anythinggoes
ReplyDeleteCongrats. Good for you... You did what made you happy on your day Thanks for sharing.
DeleteNo rules, follow your heart's desire and do your wedding your way! Thanks so much for linking up with me at my #UnlimitedMonthlyLinkParty 9 where all entries are shared on social media if share option is available, open February 1 to 26.
ReplyDeleteWe agree. Your wedding your way. Thanks for sharing
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