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Ultimate Guide for a Great Wedding Reception

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When, what, who, in what order will you weave the intricate tapestry of your wedding day? Will it be the whispered vows in the candlelit garden, the soaring first dance beneath the stars, or the joyful chaos of the reception floor? Think through the evening and have a clear plan for the entire event. Then clearly communicate this plan to all interested parties: your catering manager, the wedding party, parents, etc. Consider the schedule and details of events such as the following: cocktails, dinner, grand entrance, toasts, specialty dances, and so on. The more you plan ahead, the more you can relax and go with the flow at your reception. Use this Reception timeline sample to help you through.


1. The music and entertainment is the key to a good party

Bad or inappropriate music and entertainment can kill a party faster than anything else, so spend the time necessary to select a good band or DJ. Find someone who can match the style and tone of YOUR wedding style, can ‘read’ the crowd and keep the guests happy, and will respect your wishes. Be clear and specific about any songs or events that you do NOT want at your wedding.

2. Tips for toasting
A convenient time for toasts is just after the first course is served. This gives the servers enough time to ensure that all guests have a drink (nice to have if you’re toasting!) and is still early enough in the evening that you’re likely to have everyone’s attention. Most couples start with the best man, though some start with the bride’s father, so choose the order that works for you and communicate it to all parties. Be sure to encourage any and all toasters to keep their words BRIEF (no more than a few minutes each) and discourage off-color jokes, too much personal information or ‘inside’ jokes, and any other inappropriate content. If you have any toasters you’re worried about, perhaps you could ask them to write out what they plan to say ahead of time and show it to you!  


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3. The first dance: “don’t wait forever to do it and don’t do it forever.”
A good time to do the first dance (and other specialty dances) is just after dinner – to kick off the party portion of the evening and keep the energy going. If any song you’ve selected is over three minutes, you may want to have your bandleader shorten it up or have your DJ fade it out after a few minutes… You’ll be surprised at how long even three minutes feels – to you and your guests – when you’re alone in the center of the dance floor with all eyes on you! 

A way to keep ‘em dancing…have the dance floor next to the bar

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Ideally, it’s great if there is a bar near the dance floor. People tend to congregate near the non-dancers will still be close to the party people: the dancers. It’s also easier for guests to move seamlessly on and off the dance floor. You’ll find that the dance floor is more easily filled if it’s located near a bar! Also, offer your female guests comfortable dancing slippers which will encourage them to get on the floor. 

4. Yummy food
Whatever food you serve doesn’t have to be expensive or super fancy gourmet, but it should taste good. Enough said!

5. Focus on your guests
You and your groom are really the hosts of this shindig… and it’s always good to be a gracious host. Take some time to envision the day from your guests’ point of view, and do whatever you can do to make sure their experience is smooth, relaxing and fun. This will truly make it a wedding they’ll remember!  
Related: WOW your guests

6. The bride and groom set the mood
Finally – the most important rule of all: the mood of the newlyweds (joyful, stressed, happy or unhappy) influences the entire wedding, and affects the mood of your guests. If you think you might be worried and stressed out about all of the endless details on your wedding day, then consider hiring a wedding coordinator even if it’s just for the day of the wedding only. It is worth every single penny if it means you (and your guests) can actually ENJOY your wedding day!


Keren Michele, CEP, leads the planning team at K’Mich Event Planning & Consulting. With a flair for creativity in organizing one-of-a-kind weddings and events, she is passionate about providing valuable ideas for couples as they plan their special day.

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Updated: May 29, 2024

15 comments:

  1. So interesting since I got married in the court house. In the future, I do want to renew our vows and do the whole ceramony and reception.

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  2. I have not had my big wedding yet even though I have been married 5 years now. The goal is at our 10 year anniversary and renewing our vows. This was great information and I definitely look forward to setting the most exciting and hilarious mood with my husband at our reception! Great tips :)

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  3. This is so true. When I stressed at my wedding the tension went through the roof but as we danced and I relaxed the room settled too.

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  4. Great ideas! I plan events for a living and also did my daughter's wedding. It was so much work but a great time. We had an amazing DJ who kept things going throughout the night!

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    1. Congrats! This so true. Having great food and great music, will definitely make your wedding or any event for that matter, FUN and MEMORABLE! Thanks for visiting and for sharing your feedback. Please share.

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  5. I have been helping my daughter plan her wedding and these tips are going to come in handy. We were just discussing when the first dance should happen.

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  6. I was always taught that the wedding ceremony is for the bride and groom, and the reception is for the guests. Catering to them and thanking them for sharing in your day. These are some great tips for the party!

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  7. My first marriage, we didn't have a Reception. Which I'm thankful, because it didn't last, lol. However if I ever get married again, totally gonna all out and will have an epic party.

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